I'm not sure which you are, or if there is a right name. But I'd like to stop having to worry that my friends are going to disappear. I'm not just refering to the one in the last post. It seems like, with each guy friend I have, he's a friend until he finds a person of the opposite sex. Once he finds this girl, or perhaps its a guy, I dont really care one way or the other. When he finds his significant other I cease to exist. I stop becoming good enough, and do you know what? That hurts. It hurts a lot. But I stick around cause I care way too much, and I've invested a lot of my time, on said person. Help?